Choose the line that sounds like your life
You do not need a diagnosis, the right relationship label, or your partner beside you. Close enough is enough to begin.
How it works
Start smaller than the whole problem.
Bring the fight that keeps repeating, the load one person keeps carrying, touch that has become difficult, or the quiet thought that you may be done. MarriageOS helps you find a first move that fits the moment and gives you something concrete to use.
Get one place to start
The guided finder suggests one Tool that fits what you chose. It is a starting point, not a verdict about your partner or the marriage.
Use the kind of help the moment needs
That may be a short check, words for a difficult opening, an agreement you can try, a deck of ideas, or a longer pathway taken one step at a time.
Leave with something you can use
You might leave with a first sentence, a return time, an agreement, a boundary, a private decision card, or the next step in a path you can resume later.
Different moments need different help
The help should fit the moment.
Sometimes you are still asking what is happening. Sometimes you know, but cannot find the words. And sometimes one conversation is plainly not enough.
When you need clarity first
Understand what you are looking at
Private checks help you see what needs attention. Knowledge and Perspectives can put words around a pattern without claiming to know what your partner thinks.
When you need to do something with it
Leave with words, an agreement or a path
Builders and Repair help with the next conversation. Agreements and decks give you something bounded to try. A paced pathway lets you take one step now and return later.
Privacy, control and limits
You can use MarriageOS without handing over your whole story.
Your partner does not need to be beside you. You can stop whenever a Tool is not right for the moment.
What stays with you
Most answers disappear when you leave.
- No account or payment is required.
- Most one-off answers last only while the Tool is open and are not sent to analytics.
- Some check-ins and pathways can save coded progress on this device. Typed details and safety answers are left out.
- You can remove saved work from Progress.
What MarriageOS cannot decide
A starting point is not a verdict.
- It does not decide who is right, give the marriage a score, or tell you to stay or leave.
- It is not therapy, emergency support, or medical or legal advice.
- Fear, coercion or danger changes the job. Safety comes before couple work.
If honesty or refusal could make you less safe, do not begin with a couple Tool.
Use the Safety page to recognise when another kind of support needs to come first.