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Repair Safety & Suitability Gate
Repair tools are only useful where honesty, refusal and pausing do not create danger.
Answer a few concrete questions before you try a repair. You may be told to continue, keep the next step private, or stop.
Safety comes firstIf honesty or refusal could bring fear, threats, or coercion, leave this tool.
Private check
Take this one question at a time.
This private check looks at behaviour. It cannot diagnose anyone or tell you how safe the relationship is.
- Time
- 2–4 minutes
- You leave with
- A clear answer about whether to stop, slow down or continue
Answers exist only while this check is open. Leaving this page, reloading it, or restarting clears them.