← All tools
After the Fight
The fight stopped. The distance, shame or unfinished charge did not.
Stop the fight doing more damage and make your way back without pretending the issue is solved.
Safety comes firstIf honesty or refusal could bring fear, threats, or coercion, leave this tool.
For the moment you are in
Work with this moment, not the whole relationship.
If you still want to win, defend, punish, or get away, deal with the heat first. An apology made for effect will not help.
- Time
- 4–7 minutes
- You leave with
- A re-entry card
Answers exist only while this check is open. Leaving this page, reloading it, or restarting clears them.