8–12 minutes

Back to Partner Mode

If you feel more like their manager, parent or supervisor than their partner, chores are only part of the problem.

Step out of the manager-and-dependent roles without pretending follow-through does not matter.

One clear agreement

Make it small enough to use and clear enough to remember.

Full ownership means noticing, planning, doing, and fixing misses without waiting to be managed.

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