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Effort & Care Rebalance
You are not only tired. You are tired of having to notice, remember, ask and check.
Put the visible and invisible work on the table, then hand over one area completely for seven days.
Safety comes firstIf honesty or refusal could bring fear, threats, or coercion, leave this tool.
One clear agreement
Make it small enough to use and clear enough to remember.
This will not force equal blame or redesign the whole household. Safety-critical work stays protected.
- Time
- 10–15 minutes
- You leave with
- An effort map and seven-day ownership card
Answers stay only in this tab unless you explicitly save the structured result. Typed details and safety answers are never included in a saved check-in.