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Effort & Care Rebalance
You are not only tired. You are tired of having to notice, remember, ask and check.
Put the visible and invisible work on the table, then hand over one area completely for seven days.
Safety comes firstIf honesty or refusal could bring fear, threats, or coercion, leave this tool.
Private check
Take this one question at a time.
This will not force equal blame or redesign the whole household. Safety-critical work stays protected.
- Time
- 10–15 minutes
- You leave with
- An effort map and seven-day ownership card
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