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21 days

Roommates to Reconnection

You are competent parents or housemates and almost nothing else.

Move a functional but flat household back towards ordinary warmth and contact that is not about logistics.

Safety comes firstIf honesty or refusal could bring fear, threats, or coercion, leave this tool.

A paced pathway

Take the next step. Leave the rest for later.

Take one action at a time. A missed day erases nothing; carry on when capacity returns.

Time
21 days
You leave with
A plan for keeping reconnection going

This device remembers where you stopped and the answers you picked so you can return. Anything you type into the final plan is not saved.

See what the pathway covers

The order adapts after your first answer.

Make contact outside the logistics

Start with brief moments that have no household task attached.

Build a little shared life again

Make room for attention, curiosity, safe closeness, and something new.

Notice drift and make a return plan

Spot the first signs of distance and decide how you will come back.